February 1, 2007
Does Mr. Right exist? Am I kidding myself by thinking that he can be found in cyberspace or, in fact, at all?
I began my adventures in cyberdating a while back and confess I have not met anyone who is even close to being my Mr. Right. I have dated men ranging in age from 31 to 61 and been courted by men reaching far beyond that age spectrum reaching in both directions. I’ve given tremendous thought to the comments posted on my last blog entry what I have discovered is this:
Men lie.
Men cheat.
Men love.
Men cry.
Men break my heart.
Men bring me joy.
Men do all of the same things women do.
I am so full of hope that Mr. Right is out there, that I have reached out to a man on one of the internet dating sites and suggested that he get in touch with a friend of mine, The Funny Redhead. This handsome Mr. Right sent me an e-mail months ago — he saw my on-line photo and liked what he saw in my profile. After the exchange of several e-mails I think he took a closer look and honestly said that he wanted someone younger. It wasn’t meant to be hurtful, he merely stated his case. He wanted a white picket fence life. Marriage. Dog. Children. I was never going to be his Ms. Right. My biological clock broke years ago and even if it was in working order, my time has run out on the baby clock. There will be no children squeaked out of me.
Months passed, and after discussions with The Funny Redhead, I decided to contact Mr. Right over the holidays and suggest that he meet her instead. She is young, beautiful, smart and funny. Much to my surprise, I received an e-mail from him this evening asking about my friend. I wrote back words of encouragement. What did he have to lose? The worse thing that could happen would be that he was entertained over a cup of coffee.
I have no idea what will happen, but am thrilled that he is taking this first step. I am hopeful that he is searching. I am hopeful that he is Mr. Right for The Funny Redhead. I am hopeful that my Mr. Right is out there somewhere.
Comments
Dan_Auito (anonymous) says...
Michelle, (pretty name) Circulate to percolate my dear. Online is fine for casual conversation but the pheromone click will never happen online.
Get out there and meet the type people that interest you, go where activity is that you enjoy, just go to enjoy that activity and a kindred soul will find YOU! When you're not actively searching or looking for it.
If you want to accelerate the process than do more activities.
Just my two cents, it's always worked for me.
June 19, 2007 at 12:51 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
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