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Dear Christine,

I was recently laid off after working for 15 years at a financial services company. I had a sense I was going to lose my job but I was hoping my years with the company would protect me. When I was informed my position was eliminated, I was practically in shock. That was two months ago and I can’t seem to get motivated to find another position. I am not so much worried about my financial position; I have savings and a great severance package. My problem is my motivation. I am just so blah!

How do I get “fired” up again?

Dear BoomerGirl,

Congratulations on devoting your career to one company for 15 years! You are obviously a dedicated, loyal and capable professional. You are going through an incredible transformation. To be separated from a steady routine as well as a professional identity in addition to long-term relationships is not unlike a death. You should expect to feel uncertain, tried or even depressed. However, this is also an incredible opportunity for your to create a new life for yourself. You can find the “fired” up feeling again but there are some things you need to do first.

1. Take care of you

It is a good time to take care of you. All the attention and focus you gave to work should be transferred to you. See your doctor, spend time with friends and family, read to your heart's content. Feed your soul.

2. Imagine

Once you begin to fill your soul’s pores through attention and tender focus, you will soon feel a gentle awakening. This urge will whisper the time has come to imagine what your life could be. What does your inner voice tell you? Should you pursue non-profit work? Do you want to go back to school to obtain a teachers certificate? Listen carefully...

3. Take the first step

As your new desire begins to take shape and assume form, figure out the path to obtain the goal. Surround yourself with positive role models, and those who have the ability to support, applaud and guide you as you journey towards your goal!

Let us know how it goes!